Wednesday, February 10, 2010

No Second chance

It's typical for parents always wanting to decide things for their children especially when it comes to their future.Some parents do that out of fear because they want to control their children's life so they never leave them or so they don't crash into the same mistakes as they did.Other parents who are leading a good successful life get obsessed with wanting to decide everything for their children,so they play on the safe side by following their steps and end up with the same outcome,which is a "Good successful life".
Mostly both cases lead the children to either way suffer or having no other option but rebelling.
Some would suffer because if they did what their parents decided for them,later on they feel like they are living a life that was never meant to be for them or that they are playing the wrong role.They could even suffer from jealousy if they saw someone they know who's leading a life they wished they had for themselves that could cause them failure even in the undesired life they are leading.
The ones who would rebel are those with the successful parents who want Perfection and no mistakes.Everyone wants to be unique in his own way and have the chance to choose the life he thinks suits him the best,but before taking this decision maturity should be there.
What I think parents should remember and never forget is that they teach us to be open minded and accept people the way they are without trying to change them because that's not our role in life,but when it comes to themselves and their own children they forget that and become over-controllers..Something else parents teach us and never really learned it themselves,they always tell us that it is okey to do a mistake and that we should learn from it but at the same time they are trying the whole time to make us avoid mistakes and always be on the safe side,am not saying that this is wrong but come on from where will life teach us other than from our own mistakes..
Now this part goes for the teenagers and young adults:
Never live the life of somebody else prespective or dreams,and remember we only live life once,so you always better try to make it the life of your own dreams and desires,better then regreting it later.
And always tell yourself that when it comes to life no one gets a second chance living it again!:)

Sunday, January 17, 2010

Inspirational love stories - Love and Time(from an unknown writer)

Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others, including Love. One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink, so all constructed boats and left. Except for Love.

Love was the only one who stayed. Love wanted to hold out until the last possible moment.

When the island had almost sunk, Love decided to ask for help.

Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said,
"Richness, can you take me with you?"
Richness answered, "No, I can't. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you."

Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel. "Vanity, please help me!"
"I can't help you, Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat," Vanity answered.

Sadness was close by so Love asked, "Sadness, let me go with you."
"Oh . . . Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!"

Happiness passed by Love, too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her.

Suddenly, there was a voice, "Come, Love, I will take you." It was an elder. So blessed and overjoyed, Love even forgot to ask the elder where they were going. When they arrived at dry land, the elder went her own way. Realizing how much was owed the elder,

Love asked Knowledge, another elder, "Who Helped me?"
"It was Time," Knowledge answered.
"Time?" asked Love. "But why did Time help me?"
Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how valuable Love is."

A Box full of kisses(not written by me)

The story goes that some time ago, a man punished his 3-year-old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and he became infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree. Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift to her father the next morning and said, "This is for you, Daddy."

The man was embarrassed by his earlier overreaction, but his anger flared again when he found out the box was empty. He yelled at her, stating, "Don't you know, when you give someone a present, there is supposed to be something inside? The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and cried, "Oh, Daddy, it's not empty at all. I blew kisses into the box. They're all for you, Daddy."

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl, and he begged for her forgiveness.

Only a short time later, an accident took the life of the child. It is also told that her father kept that gold box by his bed for many years and, whenever he was discouraged, he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there.

In a very real sense, each one of us, as humans beings, have been given a gold container filled with unconditional love and kisses... from our children, family members, friends, and God. There is simply no other possession, anyone could hold, more precious than this.

Saturday, November 28, 2009

My favourite M.S. <3

Two days ago i was clueless not having any certain idea wat to write about because alot was going on lately...but as i thought to myself about the special persons in my life and the friends am most thankfull for....i came out with this kind of weird writing about you!:p....:
"Dear you.
I seriously dont know what to call this or how to describe it,but i think this is just when you meet some people in your life who take your breath away by just being in it,and shes one of those people!
Our friendship just started this summer actually after a camp we attended together,wish i would have taken this chance better to spend more time with her and getting to know her.But i didnt waste any chances after that,and now she is one of my best friends and one of the people i wanna die before.
She is really one of those people who change your life by just being in it.I cant wait everyday for our funny long lasting and kind of useless phone calls,they just make my day!
Talking to her makes me happy and kind of different,seeing her makes me really proud to point at her and say,that girl people is my friend!
Everything in her is just beautiful ,especially her soul.She is that kind of a person who has a good sense of humor,and thats one of the reasons why i call her whenever am crying or feeling down for no reason,because simply she just knows how to put a smile on my face.I dont really know how you could love and trust someone you never knew before so fast and for no certain reason and with no conditions.But hey,if i went on more into details in describing her great personality and what she means to me,i wont stop till the morning thn.
To be honest i dont really know why i wrote that ,but i think i just wanted to describe my happiness and appriciation for having such a friend like her.Manal Seoudy i cant imagine one day without you,and thats why you are on top of my list of the people i wanna die before....i love you my dearest friend,i honestly do!"

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Getting ahead of everythng!

Changing the game while playing by my rules,thats what I decided for this year!
This school year and the coming one are the last one and the most important. Now it's all about scoring and controlling the game and playing hard.First of all I know I have to play with self-confidence and self-esteem otherwise the rounds are gonna be hard to pass.I allowed myself to fail once,but i dont really like to call it failing as I dont really believe in failing.It was just a stupid mistake from which i learned the taste of being down of the list.And here I am climbing and scoring as much as I can,it only comes thru this little secret called"Hard-Workin".
Never really aimed for Perfection,just aiming for getting proud and deserving high respect.So here I am,thru this writing am awaking the faith I've inside me,cheering myself alittle bit,and remembering myself that it is all in my hand and it was all my decision after all.
Trust me when I say,am not gonna let anyone shake the faith and believe I've or even tryn to get me down.And as I know myself,I know that I sould take it as a challenge or a battle otherwise am gonna get lazy,so am hoping am gonna like my preformance on this battlefield of life.."ABITUR" here I am!

Saturday, October 10, 2009

My unknownbody<3

It was friday night at 10.30pm I was home alone when this story started.
I was reading one of my favourite books'Twilight',its a romantic story that takes your imagination far away.After a while I stopped reading and decided to enjoy the silence and the opportunity of being alone to fall deeply in my thoughts.
I was layin back on my couch enjoying the darkness with only a small light coming from the back of my room,hearing nothing but the Clock's sound as time passes by.
I realized slowely that I was out of time and place,but I could see I was standing in the middle of a garden watching two people talking together.
As i took a step closer I realized they cant feel me nor feel my presence,and so I decided to take a closer look at the girls face first.
And here I am standing out of nowhere,looking at a girl that I realized wasnt a stranger at all,to my shock it was ME,and not anyother girl,but who was that boy thn.
I took a closer look at his face too,but nothing came on my mind,I dont know him at all.
As I started paying more attention to their conversation,I realized there was something wrong with them,they werent just two normal people talking to eachother.
While he talked to her,his eyes said it all how much he cared for her,and I could feel how happy I felt about it without even knowing a reason for my happiness.
And she started talkin and saying:
' you dont know what u mean to me,am glad i have you in my life' and she smiled again..'I cant imagine myself anymore without you,you are the air that i breath..without you i'd be lost!' and she stopped for a while as he took her hand and put it on his heart and said:'Can you feel those heartbeats...as long as they go on,know that i love you,and after they stop know that my soul wont leave you!'
Tears of happiness fall down her face on her hand and they both smiled.
To me standing there and watchin their happiness i envied them but it felt very good knowing that thers such a thing that exsits.
Slowely I felt something grabbing me from the back as the picture of the two started to fade away.I opend my eyes and there I was back again to the real world,back to the darkness of my room and the silence of the night.
But I felt different,I felt more happy.
As I woke up more from this dream I realized that I fall in love with the UNKNOWNBODY of my dreams<3

Friday, August 21, 2009

The Clearness in the Sky

Hey long time not writing,and that was because I didn't know what could be a good topic to write about at this time.
Today is one day before Ramadan starts and so I decided to share with you my happiness and my joyfulness about this month.And as I am Egyptian and have always lived here in my country I can tell you through what I saw and lived till now,how we celebrate and welcome this month every year.
Clearness is what you will find when your eyes catch the sky especially at midnight,and eventually you will feel how clear your heart is too at that moment.
Peacefulness fills in the air and also the atmosphere in general.
Seeing the lights and decorations on the streets shows how much we wait for this month to come.
And yes the streets are not empty at all at that time of the year but still we can take it with patience and after eating time than it is our Reward for our patience...and that is that, you wont find anyone one the streets!
Minutes before Eating some people stand on the street and make sure that every car or person that passes by gets a small snack to break their fasting with.
In my opinion that shows how much we care about each other.
The family gatherings and being everyday at my grandmas place,is the most thing i love and appreciate this month for.Seeing my family everyday,and thats because we eat at my grandmas place with also my aunts family,means the world to me because its a beyond words feeling.And am sure you get this feeling too when your with your beloved ones,your Family!
In spite of all these spiritual atmosphere,positive things and the happiness in the air..I was surprised when my mom told me about Ramadan back at her time,because I realized how much the traditions in the Egyptian Society are changing slowly through the Generations,but still lets always hope for the best and look at the bright side.
So talking about the Greatness of this month would be endless and so I only shared with you some of the reasons why it makes that month so great and why it brings joyfulness with it,from my own point of view.I hope you can feel it with me too..
And Ramadan Karim to all Muslims all over the world.