No Second chance

It's typical for parents always wanting to decide things for their children especially when it comes to their future.Some parents do that out of fear because they want to control their children's life so they never leave them or so they don't crash into the same mistakes as they did.Other parents who are leading a good successful life get obsessed with wanting to decide everything for their children,so they play on the safe side by following their steps and end up with the same outcome,which is a "Good successful life".
Mostly both cases lead the children to either way suffer or having no other option but rebelling.
Some would suffer because if they did what their parents decided for them,later on they feel like they are living a life that was never meant to be for them or that they are playing the wrong role.They could even suffer from jealousy if they saw someone they know who's leading a life they wished they had for themselves that could cause them failure even in the undesired life they are leading.
The ones who would rebel are those with the successful parents who want Perfection and no mistakes.Everyone wants to be unique in his own way and have the chance to choose the life he thinks suits him the best,but before taking this decision maturity should be there.
What I think parents should remember and never forget is that they teach us to be open minded and accept people the way they are without trying to change them because that's not our role in life,but when it comes to themselves and their own children they forget that and become over-controllers..Something else parents teach us and never really learned it themselves,they always tell us that it is okey to do a mistake and that we should learn from it but at the same time they are trying the whole time to make us avoid mistakes and always be on the safe side,am not saying that this is wrong but come on from where will life teach us other than from our own mistakes..
Now this part goes for the teenagers and young adults:
Never live the life of somebody else prespective or dreams,and remember we only live life once,so you always better try to make it the life of your own dreams and desires,better then regreting it later.
And always tell yourself that when it comes to life no one gets a second chance living it again!:)

Inspirational love stories - Love and Time(from an unknown writer)

Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others, including Love. One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink, so all constructed boats and left. Except for Love.

Love was the only one who stayed. Love wanted to hold out until the last possible moment.

When the island had almost sunk, Love decided to ask for help.

Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said,
"Richness, can you take me with you?"
Richness answered, "No, I can't. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you."

Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel. "Vanity, please help me!"
"I can't help you, Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat," Vanity answered.

Sadness was close by so Love asked, "Sadness, let me go with you."
"Oh . . . Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!"

Happiness passed by Love, too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her.

Suddenly, there was a voice, "Come, Love, I will take you." It was an elder. So blessed and overjoyed, Love even forgot to ask the elder where they were going. When they arrived at dry land, the elder went her own way. Realizing how much was owed the elder,

Love asked Knowledge, another elder, "Who Helped me?"
"It was Time," Knowledge answered.
"Time?" asked Love. "But why did Time help me?"
Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how valuable Love is."

A Box full of kisses(not written by me)

The story goes that some time ago, a man punished his 3-year-old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and he became infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree. Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift to her father the next morning and said, "This is for you, Daddy."

The man was embarrassed by his earlier overreaction, but his anger flared again when he found out the box was empty. He yelled at her, stating, "Don't you know, when you give someone a present, there is supposed to be something inside? The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and cried, "Oh, Daddy, it's not empty at all. I blew kisses into the box. They're all for you, Daddy."

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl, and he begged for her forgiveness.

Only a short time later, an accident took the life of the child. It is also told that her father kept that gold box by his bed for many years and, whenever he was discouraged, he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there.

In a very real sense, each one of us, as humans beings, have been given a gold container filled with unconditional love and kisses... from our children, family members, friends, and God. There is simply no other possession, anyone could hold, more precious than this.